I’m tired today. So. Tired. We’re going on two weeks strong
of really bad sleep from the kids. We’re all exhausted, cranky, emotional, and
very short on patience. Parenting is hard, with no weekends off, no vacation
days, no sick days. I’ll be honest, I’m not really sure how anyone survives it,
but we’re all still here, so I guess it happens somehow. Never mind, I do know
how. Purely by the grace of God. But,
anyway, through the tired and the cranky and the inconvenience and the unruly
children, I still strongly believe this:
Raising children is a high calling from God. He treasures
His children, and the littlest of these He calls to Himself.
“But Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them;
for of such is the kingdom of heaven.’ ”
Matthew 19:14
We are raising them to be followers of Jesus, “little Christs”,
and in turn they bless us daily. They give us joy and teach us patience and are
tools in our own sanctification (oh, are they ever tools in our
sanctification!) And they point us to Christ.
Our toddler prayed her first prayer the other day. It was simple
and cute and full of childish innocence.
She thanked God for Mama, and Daddy, and Charlotte, and Ice Cream, and
Kona the dog. Aaaw, adorable, too cute, precious…moving on. Only, that’s not
all my husband and I saw in it. To us, it wasn’t just something sweet to jot
down in the baby book. It wasn’t just a cute little anecdote to post on
Facebook. To us, it was awe-striking.
" Lord, our Lord,
how
majestic is your name in all
the earth!
You
have set your glory
in the
heavens.
Through the praise of
children and infants
you
have established a stronghold against
your enemies,
to
silence the foe and the
avenger."
Psalms
8:1-2
The
praise of the little ones is a mighty thing. Without prompting, without truly
understanding herself, our two year old just praised God for ice cream. She
gave God glory for the things He has created. And God loves her praise! He
ordains it, He creates it in her heart, and He establishes strongholds against
enemies through it. That simple prayer that we witnessed was her first purposeful
act of praise to God. It showed us the tenderness of her heart, and the working
of the Holy Spirit. It gave us hope for her salvation. It turned us to Christ,
and made us glorify His name as well. It filled us full of awe. It may sound
childish to thank God for ice cream, but when is the last time you simply
thanked God for the things you love? Our daughter gave heartfelt thanks for the
things most important to her in her little, two year old world. For the things
she loves the most - family, and ice cream.
So,
consider this. If God values children so highly, how heinous is it for the
world to devalue them? To slaughter them as unborn babies, to dispose of them
as unwanted newborns, to disregard them as irritating toddlers, to belittle
them as immature grade-schoolers, to ignore them as angst ridden teenagers, and
to excuse them as irresponsible young adults? How surprising is it that this
generation is full of selfish, immature, worthless adults when they were so cheapened
as children? Who are we to put such a low worth on children when God Himself
deems them so very precious? Who are we to kill them when they are unwanted, to
ignore them when they are inconvenient, to disregard them when they are seeking
guidance? Sure, you say, that’s how the world thinks, but we Christians
understand the importance of children. So, I challenge the church. Who are we
to automatically usher the tiny babes from the worship service because they’re
too distracting? To shush the toddler belting out his favorite psalm because
he’s too enthusiastic? To quiet the chatty preschooler, fervently praying the
Lord’s prayer at the top of her lungs? To be embarrassed when our child is the
one who shouts a lusty amen with the pastor at the end of the prayer?
God cherishes the praise of babes. We should see those moments for what
they are. Pure, childish, godly, awesome praise. Let’s join them.